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Angelwings · 11-15-2007, 09:10 PM

My life sucks,
It seems like I made so many wrong decisions in my life and now i m unhappy. I m living in regrets most days.
" IF ONLY..." these words, I just cant seemed to get out of the procrastination that is severely breaking my motivation.
An example, at present moment, there are decisions i need to make regarding my relationships, I m avoiding having to make decisions coz i m afraid to choose the path i later regret.
I m afraid to date this guy, my mind tells me I should because I ve never been in a relationship before; my heart tells me I dont even like this guy, but then again my mind tells me I should date him to try it out for experience, then again, my heart tells me I m hurting him its not right, but then my mind tells me I m only young once, but my heart tells me I havent met d right guy and then my mind tells me I m getting older if i dont go for it U ll be lonely forever.

In general, I realised i have difficulties deciding because I always regret afterwards, I cant seemed to decide right there and then, I dont know if its a YES or a NO. It cud be anything,
I m trapped, Not seemed to be independent of making decisions.
At the same time, I m so unhappy because I cant decide, i hate to decide because I m regretting the pasts, i cant move, I afraid to decide.

Do u know what i mean? i m so confused as i m writing this, hope it made sense

11-15-2007, 09:10 PM	#1 (permalink)
Angelwings Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 53	hate Regrets, cant get over it. My life sucks, It seems like I made so many wrong decisions in my life and now i m unhappy. I m living in regrets most days. " IF ONLY..." these words, I just cant seemed to get out of the procrastination that is severely breaking my motivation. An example, at present moment, there are decisions i need to make regarding my relationships, I m avoiding having to make decisions coz i m afraid to choose the path i later regret. I m afraid to date this guy, my mind tells me I should because I ve never been in a relationship before; my heart tells me I dont even like this guy, but then again my mind tells me I should date him to try it out for experience, then again, my heart tells me I m hurting him its not right, but then my mind tells me I m only young once, but my heart tells me I havent met d right guy and then my mind tells me I m getting older if i dont go for it U ll be lonely forever. In general, I realised i have difficulties deciding because I always regret afterwards, I cant seemed to decide right there and then, I dont know if its a YES or a NO. It cud be anything, I m trapped, Not seemed to be independent of making decisions. At the same time, I m so unhappy because I cant decide, i hate to decide because I m regretting the pasts, i cant move, I afraid to decide. Do u know what i mean? i m so confused as i m writing this, hope it made sense Last edited by Angelwings; 11-15-2007 at 09:12 PM.