This thread reminds me of this comic strip:
girls with slingshots
I think I'm a pretty "nice guy", but never to the extent to make a woman feel pressured to like me. Even after we've been dating for a while, I make sure she understands she can walk out whenever she wants - no emotional blackmail. The catch? I expect the same from her.
Off topic: Soul Vibe, your posts are very insightful, but a bit hard to read. If would help if you broke up your paragraphs a bit. The walls of text can cause "tl;dr" in hurried readers.