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Originally Posted by Rose of Cairo Thanks for the article, Steve. Very synchronistic
Everyone around me is pressuring me into getting a job based on my skills, whereas I'm just sitting here, reading a lot and thinking about what my purpose could be and what I'd like to express. They think I'm being totally lazy, so thanks for the confirmation that my approach isn't that dumb
Unfortunately I haven't found it out yet. |
Your approach is far more intelligent than you probably realize right now.
Other people want you to join them in order to feel secure with their own decisions -- their attempts to pressure you are really about them, not you. What you're doing can make people incredibly uncomfortable, and when people become uncomfortable, they often seek to attack and/or control whatever produces that effect (which means you). They're afraid of your light.
It sounds like you're in a position where you could have a lot of fun with people who want to control you... by twisting the proverbial blade that's making them so uncomfortable.