[Aurora]

Well from my pont of view, I don't go from friend to lover "like that".
If there ever was an interest on a level that could sooner or later result in being lovers - it's there all along.

Attraction is a damn hard thing to define and pinpoint. I know that I fall for individuals that make a non-verbal (and sometimes verbal) statement of confidence and feeling good about themselves.

If someone doesn't like themselves enough it makes a statement of something fishy going on.. I do accept insecurities about some things, but not being comfy being yourself is a definitive turnoff.