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Originally Posted by LifeFirst  So for those who might take a long time to fix the errors of their ways, the flaws in their thinking and behavior, you guys are saying that they shouldn't get in a relationship at all during that time? |
Though not an absolute rule, I'd said "before marrying or deeply committing to anyone else". I have plenty of great people in my life right now, and being around them often helps to deepen my love for myself. Interactions with others simply get easier the more I've loved and worked on myself.
With people serving as mirrors for each other, dating can be a great way to bring out insecurities that still need to be worked on, but you may need to actually focus on yourself a bit to really work past those insecurities, rather than simply have them keep flaring up.