While I do realize it is several months after this post was originally made it, I can definitely relate to it. For a long time, I felt as though was a void in my life, yet when I was in a relationship or my perception of being in a relationship, it seemed like the person I was with also was in a similar situation. Except in many ways their void was so vast and deep that I could not help them overcome it.
Marry yourself first? It sounds kind of silly but if you are not attracted to yourself and are not putting your best face forward, how are others going to? For me personally, I'm still working on that area. Of course there are different reasons why you feel a void some of them outside your circle of influence some of them within it. However I strongly believe an individual's own perception makes the greater determination.
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