Regarding "Being Yourself", I think there is a difference between pretending to be something you are not and being yourself while experimenting with new things ( or revisiting old things ).
Your "self"......whatever that is, is not static. Everything you are into now, was a new thing you tried at one point. You aren't going to go through the rest of your life unchanged without trying new stuff.
In this situation you are deciding to try new things that will improve your dating life - in addition - to working for you personally. If that later point isn't there with new clothes, acting more girly on occasion, then you aren't being yourself. However if you find some joy in new clothes or acting girly apart from attracting a guy, then you are simply being yourself trying something new.
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