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Originally Posted by cdn2wheeler  More than once it's happened to me that being the "nice guy," doing and saying all the "right things" (at least, the right things according to some women - you know, the basic stuff like honour, respect, honesty and all the rest) gets one relegated to the heap of broken hearts when the woman in question decides she wants the "bad boy" after all. |
You're assuming that you got rejected because of being a nice guy, because they prefered a bad boy. What if you being nice wasn't the reason at all, but something else that you were lacking or that they didn't like with you? Or what if you were perfectly ok, but the bad boy had something that she was looking for that you didn't have, that was not him being a bad boy but something totally different?
A stupid example, the one is a nice guy with blue eyes and the other one is a bad boy with green eyes. Lady finds green eyes totally sexy and decides she wants the bad boy. Nice guy will think "ah, I'm doing everything right, but women just prefer bad boys!" because that's a very common stereotype. What if the point wasn't nice guy/bad boy but something else??