@michael Chui
I actually did read some of those threads on marraige (and divorce). It's a tough debate, I don't think there's a right and wrong when it comes to people's view on marraige. What it is to them, is how they choose to see it.
@Doku
Sorry, but I don't think you need to turn to sarcasm to show your apathy. I'm open to a peaceful and civil discussion on the matter.
@Cdn2Wheeler
I agree with you. But do you think that it's not something you can resolve by talking about before hand?
I'm really curious about what happens to people who fall in love. Falling in Love is not subject to checking for sexual compatibility, right? Yet people in today's world marry (or become live-in partners) for love, not sexual compatibility. There's even the minority that fall in love and then have sex after marraige. How is it that many of these people manage to go on to a lifetime of a happy marraige?
I'm beginning to wonder if this is the reason in todays dating world, sex tends to come first and then love. But then that could be hormones as opposed to checking for sexual compatibility.
Also am wondering if most people are too insecure to mention sexual incompatibility as reason for break-ups because they don't want people, specifically future partners to know that there might certain boundaries on the kind of sex they can have... Because either I've been not looking for it, or I just don't hear too many cases of sexual incompatibility being the cause of a split.
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