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hollowman · 11-11-2007, 05:19 AM

I am 29 and still single. Many of my friends and colleagues are married at this age or by this age.

When i receive wedding invitation cards, my feeling is an assortment of being happy for my friend finding their soulmate and sighing that another single buddy leaving bachelorhood. I see my friends building up family with kids. And they looked settled down and completed their destiny of life (something like that) of getting married and having children.

My parents especially my dad has been pushing to settle down quickly.

Yet i don't have this urge. I am not busy looking for potential life partner. In fact i dun reli care. I reli wonder why. I have a girlfren before but didn't last long.

Generally what is the right age of starting a family? Or an average age of people settling down? Should i worried about myself not having the urge to settle down?

11-11-2007, 05:19 AM	#1 (permalink)
hollowman Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 74	Should i worried being single? I am 29 and still single. Many of my friends and colleagues are married at this age or by this age. When i receive wedding invitation cards, my feeling is an assortment of being happy for my friend finding their soulmate and sighing that another single buddy leaving bachelorhood. I see my friends building up family with kids. And they looked settled down and completed their destiny of life (something like that) of getting married and having children. My parents especially my dad has been pushing to settle down quickly. Yet i don't have this urge. I am not busy looking for potential life partner. In fact i dun reli care. I reli wonder why. I have a girlfren before but didn't last long. Generally what is the right age of starting a family? Or an average age of people settling down? Should i worried about myself not having the urge to settle down?