[Spartan]

Be yourself of course, but possibly try to show a bit more of your feminine side.

That doesn't necessarily mean wear more revealing clothes, more makeup etc. Instead try and act in a more feminine manner towards people you are attracted to.

For example, try to speak in a more feminine and flirtatious way. Don't talk about blokish subjects etc.

Also, show your vunerable side and be open with people.

Most importantly though is to show genuine interest in the other person. Ask them questions and try to make them feel comfortable in your presence.

Whatever you do though I'm sure you will find someone soon. I'm going through the same worries as you at the moment and I'm only 20. I look around and think how will I find a girlfriend when most people are either already taken or completely different to me? (Irrational I know)

Don't give up hope - you found a boyfriend once so you can find another.