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Originally Posted by Terumoto  I've really been trying to stop feeling this way about girl 2, for the reasons you mentioned. The only way I can find faults in her is to get to know her better, that was my original logic, but it seems like the more I get to know her the more I end up loving her. Maybe I'll soon find something. |
Oh really, so when you'll find her faults, you'll stop loving her? You know what, that's not love! You love the idea you have of Girl2, not the girl herself. You're being pretty unfair to consider her as perfect. Because she's not perfect, nobody is. So she can only fail in your eyes, sooner or later. The day you'll find out that she's not perfect, you'll find Girl3, who will be seemingly perfect, and lose interest in Girl2 just like you lost interest in imperfect Girl1.
Boy, loving someone means loving them all inclusive, with their faults, their weaknesses, with the communication problems and everything. Not even despite of all that, but WITH all that.
IMO Girl1 and Girl2 both deserve someone who really loves them, which obviously is not the case with you. So my advice is: leave both of them and try to stop judging them.