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Originally Posted by seeker5 How did it feel when you went through that period? |
It was exciting for one. But the best part is that it was a clarification process. The benefit of experiencing what you don't want for an extended period of time is that you become increasingly clear about exactly what it is you do what. That's extremely valuable. Most people never figure out what they really want.
I also learned to experience gratitude during those times. Even when I was deep in debt and not earning enough to pay the bills, I'd walk to the beach, look at the crashing waves, and say, "At least this is free." I learned to stay centered even when things weren't going well. I learned to be grateful that I have the opportunity to make mistakes, and I recognized that the freedom to fail is one of life's most precious gifts... because that's where growth is found.
Failure teaches us so many valuable lessons. It's really not something we need to be afraid of, since the value of those lessons more than compensates for any loss in financial or social position.