I would not recommend you to split up with her just because of this, or for a series of events like this one.
Why? Because this is drama. Women create drama all the time. If we were to break up with a girl everytime she makes a fuss out of something seemingly unimportant, couples would not last at all and humanity would become extinct
So let me explain, before people jump at my throat for saying that women love drama:
Women need
emotion in their relationships.
It's kinda difficult for us guys to understand, because we guys don't need a roller coaster of emotions in our lives. We prefer to have an stable emotional state, all the time.
We guys need
action. We need to get stuff done, solve problems, have steamy sex, all this.
Women wonder why guys love sports so much. That's because they're full of action.
Men wonder why women love soap operas so much. That's because they're full of emotions.
So the fact that a guy does not give her girl enough emotions is similar to a girl not letting him play sports, have sex... or have a guys' night out. It would drive you crazy.
And the lack of emotions drive women crazy. Like a steam engine, they need to vent or they explode. And when they explode they make a fuss out of ordinary stuff. They create drama so that there is emotion on their lives. They crave the tension of quarreling with you. And the great make-up sex afterwards.
She's communicating in the
emotional channel.
But you are listening in the
logical channel. You think she's being a brat, a control freak or that she's trying to dominate you. Which might be true on its own also, google for "betaization". But most possibly she's creating drama just to stir the relationship. And to test your character.
Wulfen's recipe:
- Corteously but firmly put her back on her place. Go to your guys' night out by all means. Don't try to argue logically, say you go because you want to, or that you need to vent some steam, or whatever, but don't look for a complex logical explanation.
- Don't lose your temper with her. Lead her emotions to make her see how silly she's behaving. Don't become irate or raise your voice. It's better to joke around the issue (but without disrespecting her).
- At some point, just say something like: "hey, you know what? come here", hug her and kiss her, and if possible have sex with her afterwards.
Regards,