@CBlokland
I don't expect to work it out 'on the night'. Yes, books and discussion and thinking can only prepare you so much, and yes I know that the wedding night itself may not go as great - and I am aware of that. However I'm willing to put a lot of effort into honing my sex life once it begins.
The sexual compatibility fear is acknowledging the risk that even the efforts for improvement may fall short. But then I haven't met too many people who regret abstaining till marraige, rather I have talked to many people who believe it was worth it.
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