Originally Posted by Jochem
After a while I asked her whether she wanted to do something with me, like going to the zoo (yeah, why not?). She agreed. At times the communication seemed to have died a little, because she didn't let anything know from her side. After that, it got better and she asked me whether I would visit her if things would work out at the zoo.
When we finally went to the zoo together, I had forgotten something, and it really made me feel bad about myself, because we couldn't go to the zoo that day. She said I couldn't help it and that it was OK, but I still felt bad. From this point I started feeling very guilty.
Since you didn't follow up on the "visit her"-part. She probably feld rejected.
As a defence, she decided that she doesn't need you.
Could that be what happend?