Ok, sex is sacred. Been there. Actually, I still do believe in it. But it doesn't prevent me from having sex. I don't know what happened... I guess, when I was shy and slow and scared and didn't make any advances, it turned out that girls do take matters in their own hands and make it happen. I this made me to believe that sex is not something that only guys want out of their selfish desires.
Once I acquired a belief that sex it mutually interesting, I started to take initiative and usually with positive response.
However, I've never asked for sex, friends or no friends. At least not verbally.
Does anyone? It is usually pretty clear that two people want sex, doesn't it? First kiss may be an awkward moment, but then it is pretty clear.
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