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Originally Posted by ozone123  I want to have no inhibitions with my sexual life. I want to be the person that can ask a friend to have sex if I wanted to and it would be no big deal. How do I do this? |
This may work fairly easily if you're a female or gay male, but if you're a man wanting to have sex with female friends you may need to be prepared to lose or at least strain some friendships, unless the girl is very good humored and open minded.
Even if you're a woman wanting to have sex with male friends, though many may agree to have sex, there's a good chance they won't be able to go without developing any feelings for you, and the friendship likely won't be the same afterward. It just depends on what you value the most, sex with a particular person you happen to be friends with, or the friendship itself.
Something I'm also having to work on is that even if you have no inhibitions, most other people still do. The main group I know of that can often manage to have sex with friends is gay men (I'm a bi male, and this is simply what I've experienced and observed). Even in that group (with all its variety) it doesn't always work, but they're doing the best job of it I've seen so far.