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Originally Posted by Bitsy  Ok, so this is in direct conflict with what The Secret says to do. Maybe people like me are trying too hard because we are instructed by the experienced people (in The Secret anyway) to keep focusing every day and every moment of every day on the thing we want. I tried to follow The Secret. They tell you you have to focus on it, visualize every day what you want, feel good about it, like you already have it, dwell on it, really want it ok, I have been doing that, because that is what it says on The Secret, which is all I have had to go by at this point and it is here with me, so any time I forget what to do, it is at the tip of my fingers, I can watch it again. Now I am being told, no, don't want it too much, just think the thing on one day and in a month you'll have it, don't take any action, take some action...I can't even well imagine that I could obtain something that I wasn't passionate about having.
At this point, I don't know what is what, LoA just looks like a free-for-all, because all experienced people just say all contradicting things and evidently if you don't intend something in just the perfect way and perfect attitude (whatever that is!!  ), you are going to suffer, even if you get what you intended, in which case, I can just do the suffering, get the usual, usually sick mutation of I really wanted and skip all the wasted energy and time focusing, visualizing and meditating for it, because that is pretty much what I have been doing all my life anyhow  . |
Bitsy,
You're right, there's so much info, so many opinions, advice, my way, your way, his way, this guru, that guru, my program, his seminar, that book, this proven technique.
LoA, IM, CM, polarity, mystics, NLP, HYT, EMT, ELP, EST, BUM..........it's all bullshit.
All I can say is that you are trying to learn from your own creations.
It's like you already know the answer, but play a sick trick on yourself to not know and then have to seek it out in an annoying game of daily denial.
I can tell you who I think you are and what I think is going on, but that may probably make it worse, so I won't.
Max