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Originally Posted by Ilya  Unlike Marvinq, you do not reject having a relationship right away. But somehow you reduce it to getting laid. Hopeless romantic in me tends to disagree with that also. But at least you are for trying and learning. But let's not forget that relationships are not just about getting laid. And at some point the most difficult thing to learn is how to not keep your options open.  |
Hello Ilya, thank you for your response.
I'm just talking about the end result of dating, which is the big bang
Of course the company can be good too, as well as a host of other benefits from a relationship.
I for one feel that college is a great time for sexual exploration, perhaps it is because I am a man though. I'm in my sexual prime at 24 years of age, and consequently no suprise that my girlfriend is in her prime at 28 years old =)
The problem with a relationship is that it takes time. In my opinion, it's not worthwhile to have a relationship where both parties don't have ample time to commit to it.
In college, commiting such a large chunk of time to a relationship is a big decision. By doing so, you'll also incur opportunity costs of other things and people that you could have done, but spent the time in the relationship instead =P
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No you don't. You have the option to responsibly end the relationship, while caring about the well-being of your partner.
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I believe that you have the option to do whatever you want. You have the option to responsibly end the relationship if you choose, or if you find yourself in a situation you need out of quick, you have the option of "kicking her to the curb."
And I didn't mean it in an American X lets open her mouth, curbstomp her and step on her skull until her jaw snaps in half way
. Only unless she REALLY makes you mad! lol