If I could just jump in here and say...
Bitsy,
If and/when something transpires in a difficult way (ex. you had all these little problems getting your passport) is the first thing you think or say "Oh, naturally this would be difficult" or something to this effect...?
This is what I refer to as the baseline... Your first and natural reaction to an event...
This is what you want to get a hold of and change to suit your needs. For example, around my house it used to be stressful with money, every member bitching that we didn't have any... If a problem did arise it would be stress city, but it's kinda funny in the same respect that we would always say (without a second thought), "let's not worry it will work out, it always does..." (this was our baseline... After a while of paying attention, we noticed that there was no reason to worry, why? Because of our baseline feeling, we just focused more on that... In return the stress level went way down... As far as having an abundant financial mentality, well, we're working on that now...
I hope this relates to where you want to be...
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