 The feedback mechanism
I think the post assumes that you have a healthy emotional feedback mechanism. If you have one (as Steve does), then all you need do is pay more attention to your feelings, and they will give you good guidance. However, there are people who, for various reasons, have faulty feedback mechanisms. They don't interpret data correctly. I think of many women I know who continually make the wrong choices in men. They are in tune with their feelings, sure, but their interpretations steer them into one disaster after another. I'd be interested in seeing a post on how to get the feedback mechanism working properly so that feeling are interpreted correctly. |