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Originally Posted by Marvinq  I honestly think focusing on your future is the most important. So, focus on setting up your career and being social. Don't focus on getting a girlfriend at all. You need to minimize the drama in your life and believe me girls come with a lot of drama and a lot of time.
You have to think about the kind of happiness that is long term versus the kind "instant gratification". |
This is interesting Marvinq. I would never thought that girls fall into the category of
instant gratification.
In fact, WoW fits that definition much better.
I could understand if you just prioritized the career over girls. I don't agree, but I can understand. But avoiding relationships with girls because they require a lot of time... I think it is a bad advice. And it is bad from a long term perspective. Because starting to learn your ways around girls when you feel that you already need to marry, is a bit too late.
I think, being with a relationship with a significant other is a very obvious part of the life. And I can't say a person's life is balanced if it does not has a place for an intimate relationship.