You can put marriage on the list. But that's a weird goal. Usually it's not difficult to marry. I mean, to have a ritual (civil or religious) performed.
Usually the problem is to feel comfortable doing it, and then to stay married.
I mean, ask yourself what prevents you from marrying today. The answer may reveal obstacles that you need to overcome. That would be your goals. Then you would probably have a set of goals to make the wedding happen, but that's not exactly "marrying", it's mostly catering, decoration, and dressing up.