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One and a half year before, I have experienced some problems with my girlfriend because of her betray in spirit. Now I am still living with her. everyone have maken mistakes, but to tell the truth, everytime I saved myself from angry,grieve and worry, I found that I had hurted by the same problem from her again. the past one and a half year means too miserable to me in my opinion before, but during the past month, I have develop three top beliefs to let myself relax. She is changing herself and treating me better. I am very honored to share these beliefs with you:
1 everything is best arranged. we can draw good from anything you will. just to find the good points, don't worry because:
2 you can control yourself and you are independent. you can choose a better solution whenever/whereever/whatever. you can decide what you will do while not depending on anyone else, for me, my girl.
3 keep on paying.we shall be a great man. yes, we can only guide others, but we can't change others easily. so I decided that I would not waster time trying to change her, just thinking what I can do for her. perhaps one day, the same thing happens again, I can leave without any regret, only peace in the heart.
Now, I am living a good life with myself concentrating on my work.