You obviously (or not so obviously) do not need core confidence to socialize.
But damn! It sure helps. You might as well develop it anyway. Then you apply it and take on the behaviors of that dude with uber core confidence. When that happens, it's a beautiful thing, because not only do you fit in by default, but you stand out. Personally I couldn't give a **** about fitting in.
You might not want to become a social monster or get away with crazy stunts that break all social norms (in front of everyone, to shocked expression), but developing core confidence is the most steady and permanent way to get better at being social and...everything else.
I don't watch any TV shows except National Geographic and the Science Channel sometimes. I'm also really social and do lots of things outside because I vibe well. So TV can help, sure, like others have said, and if you like it then do it, but you don't need it, and if you find all these shows boring (like I do) you don't have to watch them.
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