Originally Posted by Marvinq
Let me clarify that my wife isn't the girl I had the date with. I understand what you are saying. You've raised good points.
But, my question is, how do you know when to call it quits on your dream? And if you happen upon someone who has no chance of attaining their dream do you continue to encourage them knowing that doing so will have an adverse effect on that personís life and/or their familyís life?
Oops, sorry I missed that! I thought I did answer your question, though. When you see that your dream is all about having, and doesn't inspire you to be or do anything about your dream, then it's time to look for a dream that does. It's all about breathing life into life -- if a person is being or doing anything in relation to his dream, than he's breathing life into life. And if he's only talking or thinking about having his dream, without the being and the doing, he's a dream vacuum.
Even a little bit of being or doing is worth encouraging in yourself or others, I feel.