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Originally Posted by benji  I'm no expert at intention-manifestation, but I feel oddly compelled to take a swing at your problem.
Hmm unless you're a Buddha, I don't think one can easily override the experience of worry. In fact, I think at certain levels of consciousness it's inevitable. Rather than erasing it completely, the task is mastering it. Mastering your worry. Mr. Brunelle was on point when he mentioned 'creative observation.'
link: http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/200...e-observation/
The blog explains how our intentions are derailed by our present moment bias. Indeed, your intentions for what is to come are heart-felt and positive. But by focusing on what is to come you leave what you already have empty. In other words: you leave your present moment bias in neutral (or negative).
While I'm sure things make a lot more sense after you've read that blog. I'll continue for the sake of responding to both of your posts.
I'd recommend taking some time to observe your thoughts more. Become the observer and evolve from identifying with the thinker. You mentioned that you experience a creeping up of cynicism, almost like you have no idea where it came from. As if these thoughts belonged to someone completely separate from yourself. You want to keep a healthy attitude, one free of worry and doubt, yet despite your wants you still experience a string of negativity. So where is this negativity coming from? Obviously, they're coming from "yourself." Now heres the kicker.. what exactly is "yourself?" Are you the observer? Or are you your thoughts? Humor this idea for a little. Experiment with it and see what you find. Personally, I believe that we have complete control over our thoughts. And it's only when you begin to identify with your thoughts that they become uncontrollable.
Hope I helped a little! |
Thanks, benji. I wrote my post before reading your suggestions. I am self reflective. You bring up some important philosophical points. I know that my own thoughts playa role in what happens to me. Strong will is important. To learn more about what I'm talking about (which relates to my intial post) you might want to read what I asked about negative influences from other people.
Thanks to all who are offering advice on this thread.
