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Originally Posted by Helpmehaveabetterlife  Thanks for the replies guys...
One problem I face is .... well... a feeling of heaviness on my chest... and a feeling of depression.. when I think of this problem.
Also... what happens AFTER I get a job and learn 2 drive, and get a car? How do I go about finding girls when I have no friends to network with? |
Since you will have a job, you will also have co-workers. There are going to be people that you can relate to. Talk about sports, cars, movies, relationships etc. Start watching popular TV shows like Greys Anatomy and Heroes, and MTV when you can stand it. They will give you tons of material each week that you can talk about with other people.
If you are totally innocent, then act that way, but don't come on too strong either. Be yourself and be willing to experiment and have fun.
Keep an attitude in mind like "I'm new in town and looking for cool people to hang out with."
For that heaviness in your chest: breathe deeply and try a little bit faster too. Roll back your shoulders and keep your head up. Imagine a string pulling the top of your head upward and straightening out your entire body. relax your face by smiling just a little bit. The heaviness should disappear in a few minutes after doing this.