Bom Dia, silver7, and welcome! I hope you get muito value out of this forum.
What you had with this fellow was just arroz e feijao. Let him go, but take a look at what you created by your attraction to this fellow -- indeed, you knew at the start that he was not available, and rather than accepting that, you tried to argue him into being available to you. Not much freedom or love in that, is there?
You didn't spoil anything. This man was never available for a relationship with you, and nothing you do or could have done would change that. Accept him for who he is, and for who he is not.
And now go find the prince Jim was talking about earlier. And remember to practice acceptance with him and with yourself.
Beijos,
Angela
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