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Old 10-25-2007, 07:15 AM
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Originally Posted by Chado2423 View Post
I have been unhappy for a very long time. I'm still unhappy, and I'm not sure all of the reasons why. Is there like some sort of formula you can utilize to make yourself happy, and no, sorry NLP and EFT doesn;t work for me. I'm talking about real changes in my life.
There's no secret formula to happiness. Happiness is something that comes from within, it- ...

Actually I just remembered some happiness formulas. Here is a few you could try:

a + b = m

Where a is you, b is the entire universe, and m is true meaning in life. In this case, the union between things that are seemingly completely different, but are actually necessary for each others existence, is the cause of the birth of understanding, happiness and meaning. Similar to the way the union between sound and silence creates music. Going against it and trying to make yourself the only focus, is like having a song that is completely composed of a single tone or a continuous silence. The meaning is lost.

-d + x = C

-d is a negative value that stands for your desires. x is whatever it is that will fulfill those desires. So basically, fulfilling your desires will result in contentment (C). The problem with this formula is that you constantly develop new desires. Even the desire to be happy causes unhappiness. Wanting it implies that you lack it. Here is a more ideal version of that formula:

= C

No desires, no desire to fulfill your desires, nothing left to want or need... Just contentment.


Well, there they are, plain and simple. Good luck putting them into practice lol.
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