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Originally Posted by striving4peace  Aside from the original topic, I'm just really wondering after all these years of abstaining, on whether to let go of those religious beliefs (against pe-marital sex) and aspiration (of having sex only with someone I love) to have casual sex if it'll counter the pain of an uncurable sexual incompatibility. Nothing sounds worse to a virgin than reaching that finish line and it turns out to be a nightmare after so much faith, discipline and effort |
I can understand how your beliefs and aspirations are challenged by worries about sexual incompatibility, but don't base your decision on the fear of that alone. You have to stay true to your character.
I don't share your religious beliefs, but the 'only have sex with someone I love' aspiration I do share and I feel it is one of those traits that really define who I am.