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Originally Posted by ella  I was just wondering if even considering that remote possiblity was going to prevent me from well and truly move on? |
I don't think so. But I hope you encourage that little hope to fade by generating for yourself what's missing in your life that would make a difference. And by going out with at least three other men, so that you can enjoy dating for fun, and enjoy finding out what men find attractive about you. You've been spending so much time trying to be worthy of Mr. Conditional that you have probably neglected the task of tending and admiring your own inate fabulousness, and not noticing that you are a shining beacon of light.
Spend some time admiring your own fine self, Ella. If it turns out you get back together with Mr. BoyMan, you'll be standing in your own kingdom, ready to merge your realms with his, if his is worthy.