Ouch, Angela, that hurts...
I understand exactly what you are saying though, for a whole year, I felt his love for me was based on conditions; he would love me and be with me if only I did this and that so that his parents would approve of me. I felt that our plans were put on hold as we could not move forward as a couple the only way was to regress.
I guess what I am trying to say, though maybe I cannot articulate it clearly, is that given time, should he decide to grow up on his own, and me on my own, I have not ruled out the possibility of us as two new people forming a new relationship together. The relationship, as it was, is well and truly over. To be honest, given the clarity I had since, I would not be happy to go back to the same relationship given the opportunity.
I was just wondering if even considering that remote possiblity was going to prevent me from well and truly move on?
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