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Originally Posted by striving4peace  well, I think you missed my first line in that post there 
I've been abstaining from pre-marital sex. But I've been very open about sex and have also tried to get as much information/educated as I can at this point, and plan to enjoy a very healthy sexual relationship once I begin it.
But obviously, not having the advantage of test driving the car befoe you buy it can be a risk. So I'm gathering information. |
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I'm a virgin, and I couldn't find much information on the net about this.
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I don't assume your motivations for being a virgin or that you're intentionally abstaining. Not on Steve's site, fo' sho'.
While a lot of marriages seem to thrive starting out like that, just remember that it's a crapshoot how sexually compatible you and your partner would be. Personally, that'd be a killer for me on my wedding night if I discovered there was some sexual problem. You'll have to be super honest with your partner and she or he will have to be super honest with you, and keep in mind sex gets MUCH better over time. Don't get scared off it by the first time. The problem with starting to be sexually active within the constraints of marriage, especially for the woman, is that there's an expectation for a fair amount of sex. If she's got a bruised cervix and a sexually frustrated husband, this can't end well! Numbing cream may be your friend.