I am sure that i am not the first one in the world who want to win ex back. There are so many successful cases online or in the book, even around us. My ex's step-sister divorced her husband, and they are back again in half a year. One Swedish guy in our corridor went back with his girl in one year. The German girl in my corridor also got back with her ex in several month, but they break up again.
Anyway, I am really looking for help on the right thing i should do now, since you guys are from the similar culture. I am not emailing him or calling him like crazily like i did when we just broke up. I am listening to his words now. I just really wish i know what is the right thing to do.
I may use the wrong word in writing, and i am very clear that i can not "HAVE" anyone in my life. I just want to love him right, AGAIN, really wish to know what is the right thing to do.
On the other hand, I am also afraid, any of my act in his eyes will be my intention to be with him, he will be against it automatically no matter what I do. We will never have any normal conversation in that sense. Besides, we are half an earth away. Are there any possibilites that my efforts will work out from such a unbridgable distance.
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