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Originally Posted by uberinquisitive  You can't win him back. I'm very sorry. It's over.
His heart has moved on. I'm sure he still cares for you as a person, and would like to be friends. But there is no more chance for romance, I am very sorry.
Please let him go. You are only torturing yourself by trying to change his mind - he won't change his mind. He has moved on.
The best you can do - learn from this situation. You will find someone new to love, so make sure you learn as much as you can from this break-up. Also, make sure you continue therapy and do a lot of introspection- this is the best insurance against future destruction. |
Dear uberinquisitive
I was reading LOA just now.
Anyway, I really wanna know why you are sure that there is no chance at all even if i improve myself and really ... change in the way he wants.
How he treats me in the past three years are not false. He used to love me that much, and there is no any chance i can rekindle his love by improving.
When i was in Greenland, he told me with tears in his eyes, not looking at me, but the other direction: I still, I like you very very much.
I really really wanna know why you are so sure nothing will do me help here. I donnot want to change his mind or anything. I want to make him fall in love with me again. I wanna try to show him that i will really change.
The reason he broke up with me, he wrote in his email: if there is one second in my heart beliving that you will change, i will give you another chance.'
However, after all my pushing and threatening, he told me that he doesnt love me anymore. So bad. He is the one very emotional and can cry anytime. He is very soft hearted normally, but not now obviously.
Anyway...
I know i must sound very desperate now. I really i am still hoping.
