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Old 10-21-2007, 08:40 PM   #12 (permalink)
uberinquisitive
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Originally Posted by joyjoy View Post
He is the best thing that ever happens to me.
Actually...him breaking up with you is the best thing that ever happened to you.

When he was your boyfriend, you didn't get mental help. But now, that he broke up with you, you are finally getting professional help.

Often, we need something painful and tragic to "wake" us up. Evolving into a greater person is very hard, and so most people avoid it until some intense pain forces us to change. At the time, we don't see that the pain is a gift.

This break-up is a gift to you. One day, you will thank him for leaving you.
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