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Originally Posted by uberinquisitive Being with me is difficult and soul crushing to the guy - he can never make me happy, unless he slays dragons every minute of everyday. And even then, each dragon has to be bigger. |
At this point I could never be with someone that needed me to make him/her happy. They've got to make themselves happy, then we can simply enjoy each other as a bonus. I used to be really into making other people happy, while at the same time feeling that I needed someone else to make me happy, but by my late teens I found that couldn't reliably work for me. Now I focus on my world and just invite interesting guests into it for mutual enjoyment/inspiration