My understanding of Ask and It Is Given is that what you want doesn't change the means of getting it. The means are always the same. The answer is just moving up the emotional scale. It doesn't matter what you want, since the methods to get it are the same in every circumstance.
Do you want a new car?
Feel as if you are at the top of the emotional scale.
Do you want a new house?
Feel as if you are at the top of the emotional scale.
Do you want a lover?
Feel as if you are at the top of the emotional scale.
That's my understanding of the book. This summary may also help:
http://www.lifetrainingonline.com/bl...t-is-given.htm
It's kind of like the book The Power of Now in that if you read it in a short period of time it may seem confusing. Sometimes it's helpful to step backward for a moment and read a summary.