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Originally Posted by Lola  I think it would be short-sighted to form my overall opinion of someone based ONLY on superficial attributes, |
I wasn't talking about an "overall opinion of someone", I was talking about an opinion as to whether or not you would want to pursue a relationship with that person.
I of the mindset now that if you see their home/car/person being a total mess several times in a row that is indicative what you will be living with after the thrill of a new relationship wears off. That is not big deal, unless you are convinced that is something you don't want in your life and are willing to make sacrifices to keep it out. I wrote that I can now understand why people take it as a big deal when these signs are superficial, because they serve as indicators that the person may not care and respect themselves and that will be transmitted into your life.