I think it would be short-sighted to form my overall opinion of someone based ONLY on superficial attributes, sometimes such superficial attributes exist because of superficial character, but I do agree that such indicators will reveal some tendencies.
I'm not so tidy (around the house) except for periodic, maniacal episodes of housecleaning flurry. When I had kids growing up it was (I claimed) because I placed a higher premium on really being present as a mom rather than constantly stressing the state of home cleanliness (as my mom did). I'm not sure what my excuse is now that I live alone - she says as she idles away on the Pavlina forum and ignores the vacuum!
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