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Originally Posted by cylon  I used to think "oh that sucks, what a shame for such and such" but now I take it personally (literally) so I freak out trying to find out why I DID that to someone I care for. Again, hopefully for a good purpose. |
Freaking out means you react as a any good human bean would and while valid from that perspective, it's still buying into the victim status.
Victim status means being powerless and nobody wants that.
To quote the Matrix.........
You've already made the choice, you're here to understand it.
That means your reaction is a defense and overload mechanism to something that you created purposefully, but haven't figured it out yet why, but there's no need to freak out or even worry, for you would
never create something that didn't have meaning and purpose.
Max