Ur same age as me, now you have to choose will you be monogamous or be a player? If she does not satisfy you completely then you should stay a player, if she does complete you you will never even think of other women.. She will be your partner in every sense, she will even be willing to go with you on hypothetical Mount Everest...
Now my question is are you willing to climb her hypothetical Mount Everest, are you willing to listen her needs, desires and dreams... the relationship is a road of million miles and it gets crossed step by step.
I know how you feel, i'm on the similar questions set as you only i am starting from clean slate now.. should i be a player or dedicate my self to a certain woman?? But i have no problem (had before) to propose someone i feel is the perfect match in less than six months.. the more you think and philosophize on the relationship the more you get scarred.. as i said it's a road of million miles and it is crossed step by step and in reality i don't understand people that have "relationships" for 3,4-5 years without even understanding what they want... if you have to ponder for multiplicity of years what to think of a relationship then you are not a serious person. That is at least my opinion.
Oh and practice on sex with your partner, that is the most important part of your love life... once it dies so dies the love, i would hate to have a person i just share my flat with without sharing entire joy of love relationship long into the old age..
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