Originally Posted by striving4peace
I didn't meet enough of the kinf od people who I would have liked to been with.
Easy! Just meet more people then!
I would also say that you shouldn't (just) try to find individuals, but rather groups of people you like to spend time with - i.e. a football team, a chess club, a theater company, etc. Such groups tend to have interactions with other groups of like minded people, which means excellent oppertunities for you to find someone special among all their ranks.
And do keep your eyes open at all times - you don't want to miss her when she is suddenly standing right in front of you!