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Old 10-17-2007, 02:42 AM   #3 (permalink)
DrMartinRussell
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You've got a minimum of 3 different concepts in there

1. Success - and getting what you are going after is a reasonable definition

2. Happiness - you seem to be suggesting this is the real purpose of getting success. I disagree. Happiness can come without success as defined above. In fact waiting for happiness this way is a formula for mid-life crisis.

Here's an eloquent video of the science - get at least 3 minutes in to get hooked...
TED | Talks | Dan Gilbert: Why are we happy? Why aren't we happy? (video)

3. Purpose - ah, well. Different again. You may go after a purpose and NEVER achieve it ie succeed, but it was still worth doing.

If it helps...
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