Thanks for all your comments they all make a lot of sense.
Especially what Angela has said. Strange as it seems I do know that the person it out there already and I often imagine what she is doing right now.
I guess we just haven't met yet and in the meantime I can use the time to work on myself and improve myself even more.
For me personally the ability to believe in the unseen has been difficult but the comments I have read re-affirm my faith and spur me on even further.
Thanks