It might help you and your loved ones if you deliver your goals to them in a way that inspires them (and you). To do that, you can describe what your wishes, goals, and intentions are giving you right now that make a difference in your life and the lives of others. So, rather than going on about the future outcome of your goal, you would allow the way of being that it gives you to fulfill you in the moment that you're talking, and watch that way of being spread.
For instance, I dream of being a published author, my words moving, inspiring, and amusing masses of people! It's possible that I will die before my book gets published. But right now, being present to my dream, the possibility of being able to put words in writing that lead people to feel free, or that make people cry (in a good way, hopefully!
); that light up a realization in someone that she is connected to me and to all of us and is not alone; or that has a person burst out laughing -- well, that inspires and moves me. That feeling of possibility feels pretty darned good, and I want to know what makes you feel pretty darned good, too.
I'm talking about the real possibility you have, your real desire to BE a certain way (loving, free, joyful, inspirational, vital, etc.) that lies underneath the external goal.
When your family & friends can see that possibility on your face -- when you can really make it present for them -- they'll be right there with you in making it real, right then in the moment.
Best wishes to you, and wishing you boatloads of vitality and healing green energy.
Love,
angela