Thanks! Many have given me new perspectives, like Rose, Mark, danas, for example...
Have you read Steve's article "Feelings"? (
http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2007/09/feelings/)
This part * is really making me think about all that story.
Negative feelings as a call to action
Negative feelings mean you’re going the wrong way. Your current reality is no longer a match for you, and it’s time to experience something new. That’s a good thing, so don’t worry when you notice you’re feeling bad. It just means you want something better or different. So don’t whine about feeling bad. Instead go into sleuth mode, and figure out why you’re feeling bad. It’s because you want something new that you don’t yet have, and at the same time you’re stubbornly resisting what you want by failing to fully align yourself with it. Don’t ignore your desires, or those negative feelings will only grow stronger and louder until you listen.
Do you think these negatives feelings may be a call for action like Steve describes it?
* hope I am not breaking any copyright rules by posting part of his text here in the forum...