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{aspiring_to_clarity} · 10-15-2007, 10:24 PM

cdn, I would actually be a whole lot happier if a guy just said, "I feel like I am not ready for the long term commitment" and went to sow his oats rather than dragging it out doing cost/benefit analysis for years. I don't think many women are in the market for a guy who is going to end up resenting them and the relationship. I would rather be alone than with someone who plays the game but secretly thinks I've stolen his youth.

OP - It may hurt at first when the plans she has for the relationship are shown to be futile, but in the long run it would probably be better for everyone involved if you don't drag out the inevitable.

10-15-2007, 10:24 PM	#14 (permalink)
{aspiring_to_clarity} Family Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Texas, USA Posts: 3,709 ${aspiring_to_clarity} will become famous soon enough$	No fire here...I agree... cdn, I would actually be a whole lot happier if a guy just said, "I feel like I am not ready for the long term commitment" and went to sow his oats rather than dragging it out doing cost/benefit analysis for years. I don't think many women are in the market for a guy who is going to end up resenting them and the relationship. I would rather be alone than with someone who plays the game but secretly thinks I've stolen his youth. OP - It may hurt at first when the plans she has for the relationship are shown to be futile, but in the long run it would probably be better for everyone involved if you don't drag out the inevitable.
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